Saturday, September 3, 2016

That means betrayal on an energy level

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That means betrayal on an energy level

The theme of betrayal is under a taboo in our society. And we all know that to be a traitor to the bad and thoughts on this topic block even for internal monologue with themselves. And nobody will ever voluntarily agrees to be a traitor in someone's eyes, always finding excuses for their actions and deeds. That is very understandable from the point of view of the human Ego.

Because, basically, betrayal understand violation of allegiance to anyone or dereliction before anyone. Or a betrayal of the interests of any group or person. For example, male to mistress-traitor, has moved to another political party-traitor. Although the proper term for such a person will not be a traitor, and a traitor.

So under the concept of "betrayal", you can bring any situation-in relationships, at work, in groups of interests, ranging from "sewing", ending with the political parties, religion, social movements. Although nobody knows what thoughts and goals of people engage in these or other relations, while trying to get out of these people often declared a traitor.

A man has just reached its objectives in this group or ties. And those who announces a traitor, human do this because people allowed to put their own interests above than their interests. But for some reason they thought that their interests are more important, more interesting for a person than their own.

Always on one side of the scale your own interests and desires, and on the other, interests and desires of another.

Generally people do not notice their own penchant for betrayal, and doing anything that they do not need and even harmful, just not being branded "a traitor", does not become "egoists, thinking only of themselves". In so doing, humiliated and gagging their ego.

Actually you can only bring themselves, their interests, their desires, their intentions, their egos. It is a betrayal of his ego causes an internal conflict and blocked person even for samoobsuždeniâ. It is always easier and safer to nominate another person a traitor to dump all the blame on him than admit to myself of betraying himself.

Betrayal of one's ego is suppressed by any means available. Often this requires other people and activities that will give others an excuse for admiration, even formal. Admiration can be obtained from the interest group, collective in various fan clubs in all groups and communities with more than two participants.

Usually the band leader is a person who, to a lesser extent betrayed by his ego. At the bottom of the group are people who are not even itself, so zatûkavšie my ego, that they have only as a source of energy for the leader and his entourage.

In love relationships the same pattern. The lead partner in a relationship whoever less betrayed his ego, someone who is more focused on their own interests and desires. Driven by the same partner who scored ego, is the only man fit only for the performance of their duties. That is fit to be a good husband, wife. And that's only until he manages to perform its functionality. Not receiving from their effort for nothing. And getting

And obviously, a partner here hold about yourself as a performer and not as a person. After all, he himself would so apply, and therefore relevant to it.

Similar situations have place to be in friendship, when "friends" with someone with more depressed Ego using as free labour, pears for whipping, waistcoat for bubbles, that is how the person who performs the role of victim.

And the worst thing that you can do is to send your strength and energy to become "the best" in a group or relationship. The smartest, the most dignified, the most beautiful, believing that this will automatically lead to delight. More try harder, work better to cook borsh, more fitness-all this did not automatically lead to the desire of others to be grouped around the person, if his ego continues to be clogged.

As an example. All in school with orphans. Usually they reminisced before the control points, and the rest of the time on them a little paying attention. But the worst bullies always respected class and desire to join their gang. While the movers are those "top" class pride. That does not make their identity more attractive.

We instilled since childhood, that "the most" open all the roads of the world. That are waiting for them with open arms in any team, in any organization. And people try, out of his climb, but happiness all this baggage does not bring. "Functional" nobody will be surprised.

Because sympathy occurs when checking the ego level, even in the absence of the necessary functionality often turned a blind eye. Well can't it borsh Cook, but clever and interesting.

When hiring, candidate, liked the ego level, often has great chances of employment, even if he has no experience and knowledge. "And, Yes, there is nothing difficult to understand ..."

So why can't we permanently enable your ego, live quietly and don't clog your brains?

And hampered by the fact that once we have betrayed your ego. And if we did not once, from subconscious fear that others will learn about that and immediately realised our betrayal, we behave accordingly. That is, we select these people around him who have Ego scored more than us. Rather not ourselves choose and circumstances add up so that we deal with such people, although would like to communicate with completely different. We can sting

So why do we betray "others?

And they only reflect the betrayal of our ego by ourselves. Or rather multiple facts of betrayal.

When in a relationship for a long time man puts their interests following the interests of the partner your desires below desires, his thoughts and feelings following partner's thoughts and feelings, he sooner or later gets a "betrayal".

And it's not such a bad partner, he's only "zerkalit" our relationship to himself. And our ego, in whatever state it was not scored, always apply to address his situation.

Yes, this is similar to the mystique, but usually the situation "suddenly" are folded in such a way that someone betrayed us. " The ego never "cuts from the shoulder and always have plenty of preliminary zvonočkov to which we do not pay attention.

And the ego is left with no other way to bring the host, but to "fine-tune" a betrayal of the other person. To the landlord finally realized that he started his life not there and it's time to change.

In fact, if you betrayed means helped your growth! Grow your ego personality growth.

If you betrayed is transferred to a higher level, giving the chance to move on.

Often betrayal is perceived so painfully, that person is ready to right and left to tell about it. Thus trying to find in the face of human listeners with even more depressed ego.

But soreness only occurs from that reliance, which has created "a traitor" has strongly supported the man, and now supports. Private support in the form of Ego is so zašugana that and build on it is terrible. But this is the only sure way is to always rely on your own ego.

Build, strengthen the ego, try to ensure that their wishes, their thoughts, their feelings, their needs, their joy is in first place, and the second is the desire to partner or group.

Don't be afraid of what people around to flee if enable egocentrism. On the contrary, they will draw like a magnet. People will want to figure out how to do the same.

And certainly no need to confuse the self-absorption and selfishness. Orientation, above all, their interests, their desires and needs-centrism, but the imposition of these desires and interests of other people-selfishness.

And when a person focuses on himself, then very quickly comes the understanding that everyone is entitled to their own interests, are often different from those of his interests. But and more interesting to live because their own Ego always agree already equal position with someone else's ego. And then "betrayal," will not take place.

And even if the relationship falls apart, people will come out of them is not a victim of ego, but with a depressed partner is not a traitor, and withdraw from them the man whose interests simply diverged with those of another person. And it will all be without drama and emotional shock.

There will be a smooth process between the past and the future.

Because the ego is our Protector, our friend, our I. Ego-is ourselves, and if we are not going to betray myself, and others will not.

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