Weak men create ourselves More and more women are saying...

Weak men create ourselves

More and more women are saying that no normal men. They became extinct as a class. Remain lazy and weak, effeminate and uninteresting male representatives. I disagreed, I know a lot of these men-and in my world too many of them. But still the problem of degeneration of manhood is. But create it ourselves.

We ourselves create weak men, themselves make them passive. You now think of their women's responsibilities? And I you about how we educate boys. Because a weak man starts with his mother. Mattress, slynko, brave man-it all begins in childhood.

Moms who wipe snot even ten years boys. Moms who wear them food in bed the rest of your life. Moms who protect the kiddies from labor and loads. Moms who do not have a child in sports, but being dragged to the dance. Moms that do not allow fathers in the education of boys. Moms who are trying to enjoy his sons, not letting them be self-reliant. What are you doing, mom? Who are you going to put a pig? And who you are deceiving yourself that this nest

This is our second extreme. We zealously make of boys male from birth, and make them get the male experience of five years of age when they are still so small and vulnerable, when they only need love, or until old age treat sons as young boys.

What do you expect from your man? Strength, determination, responsibility, courage, fortitude? And what you teach your son? Agree, avoid collisions, to avoid difficulties, be flexible, all please?

How to educate boys?

The relationship of mother and son are always special is a special relationship. The warm feelings the mother often prevailed over reason-and here it already strings him shoes, wipes the CPSP, feeding with spoon. Even if the son is now five, six, seven ... Why? For the sake of what? If your son is more than five years, you've already clearly doing something wrong. "but it's the same I have a little more", "Well he won't cope without me", "I don't care about your kid ... This is the road to degradation for your son. If

Before the boys had fathers. And then, after the wars, when so many men killed, women have not been able to figure out what to do with her son. The most comfortable position proved to be in nurturing home for yourself kind of men. Or even mužčinki. Instead of a "real" man turned out to be "male domesticated. Mom all forces did their sons. They really seemed to have it right. That they bring moms pleasure. And thus mixed up all the roles.

As a result, the program "mužčinki home" is this: do what the woman says, not rasstraivaj it, don't go away, don't mess nowhere Sidi to pop evenly slushajsya, either. And that it remains masculine? Where a man's strength, determination, courage, which always turns to his female turbulence, feelings and enthusiasm of meeting the winner? Where his lust for life, research achievements, difficulties? Where his leadership, where power and wild

If you have a son, it's a reason to change you. And change the view of child-rearing. Because you have not just a baby, you have born little man.

And you either let him become who he is, or crush and break it, turn in something like women, but some strange and korâvoe, "mužčinku domesticated. You either have to regrow a man for whom you will be grateful for your daughter-in-law, or vice versa, grow is unclear, with whom then will have to suffer another woman.

Difficulties

The boy will never become a man, if not will meet difficulties. If you do everything for him, if you don't leave him alone with obstacles. If you do not give him a chance to understand himself, to learn. If it comes into the hands of all by itself, easily and without tension. If his life everything happens by itself, without its participation. Wanted-received. If he's not accustomed to work. Loosen his desire to help his son, mom! Leave it to their daughters, who need it (but

May his peace will be a battleground. Battle with socks and laces, with dirty dishes, challenges, complex combat techniques. Where he must try to win. Where to apply force and sharpness. Where should I train my determination.

Father

The boy will never become a man if there are no men next to them. What you can teach his son? Well, honestly. Just how to be a woman. You can equip them with sensitivity, empathy, sensitivity ... It's not bad, but does that make him a man? When he is a man, he could develop and empathy-wife then say thank you. But if there is nothing in it except the male body?

Where to take the example of masculinity? An example that will show him that his feelings and desires is normal and natural. When fighting boys, moms usually panic and horror. They will long to tell sons what is not normal. But the Pope will understand-and dads can bring his son is OK. The main thing is the cause. Whether the reason for such a solution to the issue or can be easier and softer. Moms boys fight-this is normal. This masculine way

We cannot understand the soul of their sons, because we ourselves are arranged differently. They have other needs and other features. Mom of son can only grow small pages, which drags her Royal robe. Because it is very convenient to enjoy this world through his son. We will not be able to talk with them about what is relevant to them. All that heals them, us rejected has the label "bad" and "nekul′turno". As they become husband

Let them be men's hobbies, occupation, men's talk. The more men, the better. Fishing, hiking, sports, construction, machinery, technology, adventure, martial arts, martial arts, swords and pistols.

Give fathers access to sons. And let the sons of their fathers. Let them and other men as much as possible. Grandfathers, uncles, brothers, teachers, friends, trainers. Let their men's world will be full of men. Let the imperfect, but men. Able to understand them and to send. A woman can never grow out of the son of man. Mužčinku only domesticated ". Out of good intentions. Out of love. But who from this would be worse?

Freedom ____________________________________________________________________________

The boy will never become a man, if he will not have enough freedom. If it will not be able to climb everywhere, all touch. Sometimes the risk to life and health. It is the male nature-discoverer, researcher, hero of the adventure novel. If he has to sit on the Pope exactly, and thirst rages inside research-what to do? More often than not-kill yourself traveler, discoverer, cowboy and all the other "dangerous" subjects. Thu

Let his life be adventure quest. With a great deal of freedom within. More active games, sports ventures. By the way, you do not need to go there itself. Let them know it all together with my dad. Useful to both.

This, by the way, and the answer to the question: "what do I do if the Pope himself-" male domesticated? As he son something to teach? ". As we iscelâemsâ through our daughters and fathers will be able to heal and grow, flourish through communication with his sons. But their communication must be free from women in the first place. Free, full of adventure, excitement, new experiences. Joint, male experience. Don't you invented, and they selected (Yes, dad with son depart

Solutions

The boy does not become a man, if you do not learn to make decisions, make choices, and be held accountable. If all elections for it do you always podstrahovyvaete, always dictate decisions. Today, he will do so, as you say, will get a good result. But what happens when you don't have to be next? What action he can take himself? Whether he understands the consequences, familiar with the company? And who in his world is responsible for

Let it decides and chooses. Let the experiments in the decisions and learns to accept the consequences. Not done your homework-got two. Not washed his plate-is not what everyone eats, and he is the dish washes. Not classified their pants in the basket of dirty laundry-goes in dirty. Or sitting at home. And so on.

Let it chooses and what it do, how much, when and how. What book to read, what game to play, what to draw, and as with whom to be friends, what a cartoon look, what household chores to perform. And so on. The more he can take decisions independently, the better. Give him the practice of meetings with setbacks and victories, to adulthood he was not afraid of mistakes and defeats, having a great experience with them.

Leadership

The boy does not become a man, if he will not be able to lead, to dominate, to compete. With whom it will all work out, if it educates a woman? How can you compete with mom? In what? But as above it to dominate, if she even her husband this possibility does not give?

While to the woman beside the man was happy inside it should be the State of possession of this woman. "You're mine"-this promise from the male eye is able to reassure female heart. And many women this all my life looking for and waiting for. But as a boy that learns from her mother? Does. He can learn only to obey and suppress in itself.

Responsibilities

The boy will never become a man, if he has no duties. If it is all finished and nothing to do. If you are with a spoon and do homework for him. If he does not know how the Cabinet fall clean t-shirts. If he doesn't know which side opens fridge.

Note girls duties appear early enough. Although they could be something and give time to relax-the whole adult life they will wash, Cook and clean. And that's just the boys would be able to serve yourself around. Yes and his wife then thank you say.

Help

The boy never becomes a man, if anyone did not need his help. If mom is all by herself, everywhere, and it saves-what is the meaning of becoming a man? The man is the one that you need. In which need. Who can show their best qualities surpass oneself for the sake of his beloved woman.

This is something you as a mom can. Ask him for help. Increasingly, more all the time. Ask for and deliver packages, and play with brother-sister, and take out the trash, and peel the potatoes, and assist in the work. In any situation-ask for assistance. Do not evaluate in advance of his forces, saying fail. If you think so-not exactly. And do not even take. Feel the distrust.

You're used to it all the time to help themselves. Enough is enough. Stop. Assistance requests-better podbodrite that he himself could handle. And let them try, trains. Change roles. It's not you him help and you. Throughout. He your assistant, Defender, hero and Knight.

Believe in him

Believe in him. Believe it, most believe, less anxious. Leave caring for daughters. And boy does a man your faith in him. You can do it. You are strong. You're the man. Who if not you. You're an adult. You are strong. You as a dad. You're a real man!

As I recently told our middle son: Mum, I'll help so I already like Dad — a real man! ". Man is not some single letters, but he is right. He is already a man. He arranged quite differently and quite different functions. And because I do not understand, I do not get involved, so that nothing is broken. Until four. And he is still that "my boy". But inside my already growing boy "muzhik" — and this guy more. Very soon a guy pull

Let son the opportunity to grow a man. Give him the freedom to be who he is. You want to become a man? Then nurture itself-learn not to command them not to overpower it, no limit. Learn to work with their fears and unrest is your emotions, and the boy is not. Learn to be a woman, to give the reins to him, even just five or six years. Learn to obey, learn to accept and believe. Learn not Naka

From his huge love for his sons, we need to learn to be with them more inquisitive. From the love and care about their future, we need more often to ask them for assistance, download physical labor. For the love of sons we need to surround their men. And to withhold from the inner circle, remaining in sight. Hug and kiss the Crown before retiring, but happy to keep myself in your hands and not sûsûkat′ with the boys. Sûsûkajtes′ girls-that's really all this with anyone not b

Or be ready to that and your son will become "nedomužčinoj" in the eyes of your daughter-in-law. And it will be your responsibility. Your price for its own weakness, inability to allow his son to become who he was born-a man.

And one quote that caught me eye accidentally but liked, on the same topic:

"I will ask you and myself: If the child is the main value and if the woman all controls and commands, where the husband? What place it will reserve replacement and natural-gospodstvennogo? Has he created to biologically osčastlivlivat′ daughters, making their mothers; give wives bedding joy and earn money (preferably large), and the rest stand silently on the side? All what? And Moms really taught, and women's magazines nastavlennye, namespace

"Feeds, loves clothes, pampers, caresses, not contradict anything because I am a mistress". This girl does not dream about the real husband, but the Cat in boots that fluffy, affectionate and part-time miracle worker. With such a dream about marriage have to stay unmarried or are desperate to get out in the end for an aging widower. So no matter what happens, you need to dream about marriage (dreams inevitable, natural and Sin not carriers) prevent the biblical idea of Ministry, dobrovol

Archpriest Andrey Tkachev

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