##Tarot divination prediction ###balance of spiritualityDepressive world or the...

##Tarot divination prediction ###balance of spirituality
Depressive world or the void time
In short, the Russian blues ...

"I feel tired, exhausted to the point that almost crying from morning to night .... Madden faces of friends ... Daily meals, sleep in the same bed, his own voice, his face, his reflection in the mirror ... "Or this:" I'm tired, tired from all relations, all men are tired and all desires. Go anywhere in the desert or a sleep "last sleep." And again: "So all disgusting in the world, so unbearably boring ... live, speak, write." The views expressed at

Quoting the great people and can continue, but it seems that this is not necessary. Do not be mistaken if we assume that these feelings are familiar to most readers. Sleepless painful night. In the morning - depression. Close irritate your detachment, or, conversely, inappropriate bothersome. Jobs hated. Fortunately, as a rule, such states are reversible and of short duration.

But it can not pass. Not a week or a month. Not even six months later. Or, after a temporary improvement, resumes. In severe cases, may join to this very dark thoughts - for example, suicide. Then it - depression. And in vain do you think this happens only losers and spoiled idlers.

Of course, not every nervous breakdown - depression, but depression each - a threat not only to health, but often life. You must firmly warn at once: a diagnosis that, despite the apparent clarity of symptoms, may raise only a specialist. There is only a brief list (since the majority of glossy magazines have been read) the main symptoms. In the classic form of depression manifested depressed mood, loss of energy, fatigue, decrease, or have



"Colds among psychopathology" or some statistics

References to the menacing growth of psychopathology and WHO disappointing forecasts for the next few decades have become common place. Just to mention that, as predicted, by 2020, mental illness will be the leading cause of disability the world's population, while depression takes second place (after coronary artery disease). Just 10 years ago, in 1990, the analytical data of the World Health Organization, depression is ranked only 4th place. Now

Meanwhile, 100 years ago, in the early twentieth century, according to Freud, patients with similar diagnosis in Vienna, where he practiced were very few. But a striking increase in the incidence of depression in such a short time, says that the main cause of depression should be sought, probably not in the field of biology, because it is known that genetics and human biochemistry can not so radically changed in just one or two generations. etc. can

Why is that?"

So, what happened in the twentieth century with humanity? What explains the fact that depression has become so "popular"? Here are some considerations.

At first. Most psychoanalytic researchers agree that depression is associated with the experience of loss, real or symbolic, loss or disappointment in the object of love. The apparent loss - a divorce, illness or death of a parent. The loss may be less obvious, to put it in, say, the premature separation from the mother (for example, in the case of an early return to work), its low availability for the child because of employment, in the prejudiced

It is clear that everyone in my life experienced during the collapse of love, a break with loved ones, death of relatives. Generally not suffer in such situations, it would be strange. But not all people felt the situation as a disaster, when the world without losing the value of the object of love, and as a result - life loses its meaning; not at all in such situations develop depression.

Resistance to the situation of loss of the ability to "punch" in different people are different, and it is laid in early childhood, and its origins are probably in the early relationship with the mother of the baby. To a child in the future was safe from depression, the mother of a certain age (somewhere up to three years) should be close by and should show love. This has been proved many times. But what happens in reality? It is no secret that the maternal function in our time have undergone gently th

Further. Relationships today have also become unstable, people easily change partners, marriages break up and children are growing up in families where one parent is absent. But even if both are present, they are often so self-absorbed that children are not left strength and desire to communicate. As a result, the installation grew unconscious depressive patient looks something like this: "I did not like the mother - so can not love anybody, I do not have value."

Secondly. In modern Western culture, there are certain psychological factors, multiplying negative emotions - sadness, fear, aggression, shame. These are special values ​​and attitudes, encouraged by society and, as a consequence, cultivated in the family: it is the cult of success and achievement, the cult of power and competition, the cult of rationality and restraint.

It's funny and sad: the Americans who invest huge amounts of money in research and treatment of depression, which has already become a scourge of this prosperous society, in every way promote the cult of success and prosperity. This cult is so deeply entered into the consciousness of the modern American that desire to look prosperous and flourishing comes to the point of absurdity, and its pathogenicity is often not recognized, even by specialists.

Few personal observations. A few years ago parents took the boy to the United States. Now come on a regular basis in the summer, on vacation, to visit. Communicate. ten times a day boy pronounces aggressively enough (and with evident anxiety): "I'm not a loser any! But this - a loser "just in case" loser »(« loser ») - in translation from English, about, loser!. It seems the world for a boy already firmly divided into two unequal camps, and oh, how he opasaets

A few words about the tyranny of success. Cult achievements, high parental demands and expectations and, accordingly, high criticism ... Perfection in such a family is transformed into an end in itself, a substitute for more realistic goals. Children are seldom praised as excellence standards beyond. In fact, the child here - hostage parents a tool in their quest for their own glory. Prestigious to be a parent student fizmatlitseya, the coolest city

Finally. The twentieth century has canceled sexy sing, but instead of two unusually cruel world wars, the invention of nuclear weapons, genocide, totalitarian regimes, the surge of terrorism, urbanization, globalization ... If that - you can not hide on any uninhabited island. And if it is true that the most important in the etiology of depression - loss of a loved object, then lost in the twentieth century was an extremely important "object" - reliable, safe, predictable world. Let us recall the "Three

Tablets from heartache
It seems to find a way out of the impasse America has made its choice, a choice in favor of psychopharmacology. The dream of a magic pill of happiness come true in 1987. In the market, accompanied by the vast costs of marketing and advertising appeared Prozac. Now this option copies the rest of the world. The only question is whether it is justified to copy. So, what is based this choice, what it is not all conscious roots?

As in the law, it is necessary to answer the question "who benefits". Is chemical dependency prescribed cost and not be afraid of this statement, ideologically? It is no secret that the pharmacological corporation engaged in the development of the means to conduct the operation, and even people's thinking in terms of power is quite comparable to the MIC and shaping the market for themselves.

Pharmacological paradigm removes the responsibility from the subject with me. The misfortune is seen as a result of violations of serotonin levels and the loss of self-control. We need to do two things: to believe in themselves and believe in the tablet. And then you have desired the same as the other. This is where lies the paradox: on the background of the Great Depression, people behavior, human-machine replaces the human suffering, the person meditating, giving way to a corporate entity

Here it is!

And what are we doing? Also it does not matter. But with national characteristics. We agree, no one would think to offer a person who has a toothache, "Pull yourself together!" And with depression - often. It's amazing: we treat the teeth, and the suffering of the soul despise, despite the recommendations of glossy magazines. After all, to say of himself: "I have depression" is tantamount to their own suffering, without legitimate reason. Therefore, we refer to the magnetic drill
As a result, visiting professionals prefer their own, domestic anti-depressants: alcohol, gambling, mistresses, etc. If it is absolutely unbearable, take pills. Yes, it is justified - in the case when the depressive episode has been delayed for weeks and months, and prevent suffering lead usual life (of course, the drug prescribed by the doctor).
But there is another way. Can taking a pill, restore lost love? Reconciled with its own imperfection? Forgive unresponsive loved ones? Alas, the tablet - it's only anesthesia (which sometimes is definitely needed), and therefore does not eliminate the problem, but only dull the pain. One of the real output may be a psychological approach, based on the ideas outlined above, understanding depression not as a disorder of brain activity,

As you can see, the choice is. But to implement this choice everyone will already own.