##Tarot divination prediction ###balance of spiritualitySUFFERING AS RELUCTANCE TO...

##Tarot divination prediction ###balance of spirituality
SUFFERING AS RELUCTANCE TO GET OUT OF COMFORT ZONE

There is a category of people who are forever suffer, cry and find situations in which is sure to be a flavour of negativity. On the one hand it is a pity, but on the other hand, their eternal nagging can pull with us energy. Let's see what is the reason for their suffering and how we can help them.

At the Department of Psychiatry at the Medical University, where I studied, one doctor got Daddy "Pearl". Supplier perlov were journalists who periodically caught schizophrenic in the acute stage, after which appeared "sensational" nonsense, like "his thoughts reads KGB" or "resident of Voronezh communicates with aliens. Plus student got folder Pearl, from case histories that had to write on every subject, including psychiatry.

My odnogruppnica made its small contribution to the content packs. Describing the patient's psihostatus, she wrote. Subjectively-goosebumps before your eyes. Objectively-formication No.

Constantly confronted with people who constantly suffer, experiencing, are slapping react at all events very painful. The vast majority of them fall under the modified formula for my odnogruppnicy: subjective suffering; objectively-reasons for suffering is not.

Why do people constantly suffers? The answer is quite simple-he wants to suffer. I naturally about suffering to "nothing". Who searches, that will always find, the more such people suffering from childhood developed skill to automaticity. It is important to answer the question of why such a man wants to suffer?

It is worth to revisit this topic as comfort zone. The term is fairly common, although many confusing word of comfort. Because in everyday understanding of the word comfort means convenience, something pleasant. Though actually the "comfort zone" means a few more-it's a situation familiar to you, where you know what to do. That doesn't mean that comfort zone should be good and really comfortable. Should be accustomed to, but for many

In films about the war, often in one form or another show this episode. People are so used to fighting, when around explosions, shooting and stuff, that concern is not so much the actual fight, how much calm. Silence and striking promises unexplored implications. Fight for them more familiar and more comfortable calm.

If a person was brought up in difficult circumstances, faced with pressure from parents and others felt their uselessness, nelûbimost′, felt the injustice experienced within all the negative points, suffering experiences are becoming the norm. That is, it is customary, when he was going through. It is "good", when he "bad", and it's not because he is actually good, but because he was so familiar. He is accustomed to it, he knows that with e

Anyone strive that he habitually and clear to its "comfort zone". If comfort zone suffering, he will find the way how to suffer. With the experience of our work, I can say that man looking for ways on how to restore it to its comfort zone.

In doing so, he avoids situations where he can be really good, comfortable and pleasant. Why?

Because "real good" is outside the comfort zone.

When the person is really good, then he doesn't know what to do about it, he's just not used to it. This leads to the fact that there is anxiety that gradually intensifies. Really comfortable condition is so unusual, so you don't know what to do with it, so if you are starting to feel the anxiety and worry that it's all for a reason, and may result in some unpredictable disaster.

And how can you avoid something unknown bad? A very simple formula, lest something unknown, you want something habitually bad, that is what you're used to from childhood, you know how to behave in this case maintain that feel and generally is well developed and oiled the mechanism.

Further included individual settings that help you enter a familiar comfort zone:

1. you may remember the baby. Why people don't want to let go of the past.

Because there is always an opportunity to remember the past, and "vkatit′sâ" in the familiar suffering. It will ask how do I let go of the past, but in fact he does not want his release, because for him this is an important factor that allows you to be in a comfort zone.

2. you can organize your life to experience suffering. For example, the child is constantly forced to do what he does not want to. Tedious, fond and monotonous work. He felt was miserable, and it has become so integral state that as an adult he chose fond, chore, paying job. Work does not bring any moral or material satisfaction, but you maintain the usual emotional

3. you can find a partner who will take over the functions of the "suffering" generator that will allow for a long time to be in a comfort zone. In doing so, partners who are not ready to try on the role of a sadistic, somehow not very interesting. It is unclear what to do with them.

4. At the end of the day, you can just go slapping. Catch some minor crap, then leave in the memories-voila-comfort zone. Experiences of suffering.

People find a lot of ways to get hurt. You need to understand this mechanism. And learn to control it, which perfectly fits such a tool, like a diary with retrospective analysis. And "sufferers" need to understand that all what they seek in their minds, close relationships, interesting work, good communication, internal tranquillity, this all is outside the comfort zone. And subconscious pulls in habitual suffering, so it's important to realizing this

Objectively-reasons for suffering most people have not.

Subjectively do not need to look for them.